That would work for someone having an off day. Not an actual shitty person. If they knowingly didn’t reply for half a year and only messages back when they wanted to use them, that’s likely an actual shitty person.
Shitty people usually lack empathy, which is why they are ok with being shitty. If you treat them with kindness, they are much more likely to keep abusing the situation. When I refer to a shitty person, I’m talking about narcissistic, machevellian, slightly sociopathic types of people.
That would work for someone having an off day. Not an actual shitty person. If they knowingly didn’t reply for half a year and only messages back when they wanted to use them, that’s likely an actual shitty person.
Shitty people usually lack empathy, which is why they are ok with being shitty. If you treat them with kindness, they are much more likely to keep abusing the situation. When I refer to a shitty person, I’m talking about narcissistic, machevellian, slightly sociopathic types of people.