Columbia University senior Emma Sulkowicz, 21, says she was raped in her own bed at the beginning of her sophomore year. This week, two years after the alleged assault, Sulkowicz, a visual-arts major, has made a promise to carry her mattress around campus every day as part of her senior thesis. It is, she says, a symbol of the burden sexual-assault survivors carry with them every day.

“The act of carrying the mattress from inside my room out into the light has mirrored the way my life has changed, as I’ve brought my personal story out into the light,” Sulkowicz told TIME. “This project is a way to heal one of the most difficult things that happened to me. As I will build muscle and get stronger, hopefully I will also build emotional strength.”

Sulkowicz started the performance-art project on Tuesday, and she said she is determined to continue carrying the mattress wherever she goes — to class, the library, the gym — as long as her alleged rapist is still on campus. That means her project could last until graduation day in May 2015 — unless her alleged assailant is either expelled or chooses to leave the school. Last year, Sulkowicz and two other women reported the same person to the university. All three cases were dismissed.

  • velma@sh.itjust.worksOP
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    4
    arrow-down
    5
    ·
    29 days ago

    But getting kicked out of university for supposed rape when you’re innocent is a life sentence.

    What do you think having to drop out of University because of the trauma of being raped does to a person?

    • Womble@piefed.world
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      8
      arrow-down
      2
      ·
      29 days ago

      So two wrongs make a right? This person had their life horribly disrupted for reason A so an unrelated person should have their life horribly disrupted for reason B?

      People should not be subject to arbitrary harm from others and we should be against all forms of it, whether that’s sexual assault, economic coercion or lack of due process.

      • velma@sh.itjust.worksOP
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        4
        arrow-down
        2
        ·
        29 days ago

        lack of due process.

        When universities hide evidence, don’t report to authorities, and otherwise dodge investigating rape accusations, then people aren’t going to trust when they exonerate these men.

        This is on the system that protects these rapists.

        • teuniac_@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          7
          arrow-down
          1
          ·
          29 days ago

          Due process is also a system that can make things like racism, sexism, nepotism harder. Also outside of universities people often feel like the legal system protects offenders, but it in a well functioning system it also protects them. After all, without due process, rape victims themselves can also be expelled by universities.

          And when a legal system doesn’t work, it needs fixing. People fought hard for legal protections to put in place in the first place.

          • velma@sh.itjust.worksOP
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            3
            arrow-down
            1
            ·
            29 days ago

            Over 90% of perpetrators of sexual assault and rape never see the inside of a courtroom.

            It needs fixing.

        • Womble@piefed.world
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          3
          arrow-down
          1
          ·
          29 days ago

          I don’t know about this case, if that is true then its terrible and he should have been arrested, convicted and thrown out of the university. But the larger point stands, denying some people of due process because others are harmed in other ways is not something to strive for.

          • velma@sh.itjust.worksOP
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            3
            arrow-down
            2
            ·
            29 days ago

            The rape victims at these universities deserve due process as well. As in a legit investigation and not hiding of evidence to protect these men.

            • Womble@piefed.world
              link
              fedilink
              English
              arrow-up
              5
              arrow-down
              1
              ·
              29 days ago

              Absolutely, I haven’t seen anyone in this thread say anything suggesting otherwise, everyone deserves that. But that means not throwing people out of a university without evidence.

      • velma@sh.itjust.worksOP
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        3
        arrow-down
        3
        ·
        29 days ago

        But until there is some major breakthrough, this is the best system we have.

        Not when universities have the ability to hide evidence and obfuscate real investigations in order to protect these men. Which they have done time and time again.

        This is not the best system we have. We can’t even get the police to process rape kits.

          • velma@sh.itjust.worksOP
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            3
            arrow-down
            1
            ·
            29 days ago

            Why do you think these stories are getting such traction right now?

            These investigations were corrupt.

              • velma@sh.itjust.worksOP
                link
                fedilink
                English
                arrow-up
                2
                arrow-down
                3
                ·
                edit-2
                29 days ago

                Then reinvestigate and improve the system, but don’t let yourself fade into even more lawlessness.

                What the fuck do you think we’re doing when we talk openly about these things with righteous anger? What the fuck do you think we’re doing when we demand that universities no longer sweep these accusations aside?

                  • velma@sh.itjust.worksOP
                    link
                    fedilink
                    English
                    arrow-up
                    2
                    arrow-down
                    2
                    ·
                    29 days ago

                    Public pressure can do wonders for making change.

                    Geez, Photonic, maybe if more people pushed back on some of the absolute horrid takes I’ve seen around, I wouldn’t make it a point to be so outspoken.

                    Oh, it’s your creepy ass again:

                    "What’s this then, Velma? Literally the next day I find you on the music community raging about pedophilia? The comment was supposed to be a sarcastic criticism about how you’re using the MAGA playbook to discredit politicians outside the US. You weren’t supposed to be taking notes… "’

                    Yeah I can continue to not give any of your opinions weight. Thanks!

      • Bluescluestoothpaste@sh.itjust.works
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        1
        arrow-down
        1
        ·
        29 days ago

        No, innocent until proven guilty is only the bar for the government to lock you up in a cage. It’s impossible for anyone to live their life using that standard.