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when i first heard about the male loneliness epidemic i was like oh yeah close camaraderie and bonding between men is often discouraged in favor of competition or, if not discouraged, at least filtered through a lens of individualism that precludes deep connections. and then i learned what people meant by it (men arent getting laid) to which i say skill issue

to all the men out there not getting laid: try less hard to get laid and try more hard to be an enjoyable and relaxing presence

    • ThorrJo@lemmy.sdf.orgEnglish
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      2 months ago

      the problem isn’t the good people on .world.

      the problem is the endless horde of dipshits on .world who need to do a lot more detox from shithole social media like reddit, and stop spewing their ignorance into every comment section they infest in the meantime.

      since they won’t stop doing that shit at anywhere near the rate necessary for me to enjoy & derive value from this place, I will be removing them from my default experience the instant that option becomes available to me.

      it’s on the good people of .world to either help their compatriots self-improve, or find a less shitty instance. because when it comes right down to it, there are a hell of a lot of good people not on .world for me to talk to, and that’s plenty. the ones who stay indefinitely on a shitty instance are not irreplaceable. not by a long shot.

    • Impassionata@lemmy.worldEnglish
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      2 months ago

      What is this place anyhow? I get pushback on .world for telling feminists that men’s problems won’t be fixed if they understand the patriarchy harder, and here people are defensive of the notion that politics made some men really shitty.

      Did a bunch of lonely men end up here instead of lemmy world?

        • Impassionata@lemmy.worldEnglish
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          2 months ago

          You are making the mistake of anthropomorphising communities. There are no singular trains of thought here. There are just people of many sorts posting messages for others to read. Full stop.

          Yeah ok but you are not immune from having a local culture sorry

          leftists of ALL sorts (which is its own entire topic of how freaking diverse that is),

          so is it like the subset of leftists that isn’t outright commie?

          You seem to be using politics as a cudgel against men instead of attempting to understand the social forces that are creating this problem in the first place.

          yes, because using the cudgel is preferable to endlessly theorizing

          You can pretend to not understand all you want, but your ignorance won’t be tolerated for long here.

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