I’m also 40-something and I see all that stuff around me. It’s hard not to notice. All the (6) colleagues in my office room are divorced and in most cases the (ex-)wife is the reason. And when I see the other women… there aren’t a lot of good choices.
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Some guys would do that because they know they won’t have a chance to get a ‘better’ woman.
The problem is women and men are different and they treat each other differently.
No man would would push down a young beautiful woman from the edge of a bed. Women notice that and are flattered that they are wanted so much. Honestly women only need not to be obese and the guys will line up. But that’s only true for young woman. After 30-35-year-old most women beauty diminish rapidly.
Men on the other hand age visibly slowly. A lot of women still judge them handsome when the guys are already 40 or 50 years old. (There are of course ugly 40 and 50 years old.) But young men are more often only playthings and only the 6-6-6 ones have a good shot a being choosy.
Which is true. But! Men <30 years old usually are more tolerant in what they accept. They’ll take almost any woman 18-30 years, low or high income, fat or skinny, beautiful or ugly, etc.
Women below 30 years age on the other hand often are fixated on 6-6-6 rule (6+ foot height, 6 digits income, 6 pack) which are like the top 1% of the male population. Once they are older and want to ‘settle down’ they won’t get any of these top guys because these guys can cherrypick their women. And then the women are disappointed by the ‘left-overs’. I’m not an incel but I can understand why it (sometimes? often?) happens this way.
How to solve this? No idea.
How did couple come together 100 years ago? What did they do different back then?
Fun fact:
In medieval times cats were seen as evil and chased away. The job of hunting mice was done by smaller dogs.
Krik@lemmy.dbzer0.comto World News@lemmy.world•Finland is again ranked the happiest country in the world. The US falls to its lowest-ever positionEnglish221·4 months agoCan relate. Am I secretly a Finlandian?
Krik@lemmy.dbzer0.comto memes@lemmy.world•Who said you can't immerse yourself when playing with the opposite gender?69·5 months agoMost guys are playing female characters. Even most female player chose them and women hate women the most. :D
Krik@lemmy.dbzer0.comto News@lemmy.world•Donald Trump shares anti-LGBTQ+ Nazi era ‘Pink Triangle’ insignia on Truth Social341·5 months agoCan’t just stay low for one day so we can catch out breaths?
He’s like a duracell bunny.
when you realize the average reading level of the US is at a 7th grade level and 20% read below a third grade level it explains why companies require degrees.
Ouch. I didn’t know it is so bad. How could the people allow that? Why is nobody on the street and marching for more education?
This is stupid. Not you what you tell.
You can game that system by majoring an easy degree.
Krik@lemmy.dbzer0.comto News@lemmy.world•DOGE staffers flew to California to try and release water themselves during LA fires2·5 months agoAlso Trump did say he wasn’t going to do Project 2025 during the campaign.
Nobody has any intention of building a wall.
- said Walter Ulbricht, head of state of the GDR in 1961, two months before he ordered to build the Berlin Wall.
Or gender studies. I still don’t know what that is about.
You can also try philosophy so you can philosophize about why this choice was bad.
Who tf hires someone with a degree in philosophy?
Krik@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Technology@lemmy.world•Nokia Put a 4G Cellular Network on the Moon but Couldn’t Make a Phone CallEnglish1·5 months agoTitle: You wouldn’t believe what I found.
Krik@lemmy.dbzer0.comto News@lemmy.world•Trump says 25% tariffs on Mexican and Canadian imports will start Tuesday, with 'no room' for delay12·5 months agoSome car parts travel across the US/CAN border six to seven times. The price increase will be much higher than 25%.
I wonder if it’s true that the US car production will grind to a halt within a week as some analysts say. That would be huge!
Google was already shit for years. Its purpose nowadays is not to deliver whatever search results the user requested, it’s purpose is to keep the user dangling so that he clicks on one of the sponsored links - that’s money.
And that, ladies and gentlemen, is the reason you won’t find anything anymore on Google.
You can try DuckDuckGo. They are pretty open on what they do. The search engine is Bing and the maps come from Apple and you can chose your preferred AI from a list.
I haven’t heard about the decentralized search engines. Are they any good? Or are they more in like a proof of concept stage?
Krik@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Technology@lemmy.world•Amazon Restricted Vaginal Health Products for Being ‘Potentially Embarrassing’English2·5 months agoBut Amazon has no problems with the sale of adult toys? Hypocrites!
Do I use BTRFS or ZFS? I tend to use ZFS because of its advantages when making backups. What would you do?
Usually VMs are usually I/O starved therefore I would try to go as lightweight as possible and chose Ext4 or XFS (depending on what the VM is used for). The VMs can be backed up whole by Proxmox. You have more than enough space to do that and it’s considerably easier to set up. And honestly how big could the containers and VMs be? I guess the containers are 50-200 MB and a VM a few GBs. That’s almost nothing.
Do I use QEMU/KVM virtual machines or LXC/LXD cointainers? Performance wise QEMU emulating the host architecture should be the way to go, right?
LXC containers are way more lightweight than VMs. I depends on what you want to do. Docker and a file server work better in a VM so far but Pi-hole and Jellyfin run perfectly in a container.
I shy away from running all services as Docker on the same machine for backup/restore purposes and rather have VMs per service. Is there anything wrong with this approach?
I would go for LXC first. If that isn’t possible or too cumbersome I would try docker (in a VM) next and one-VM-per-service last as they need the most resources.
I’d love to keep NextcloudPi (because it’d make it easy to migrate settings and files) and there’s an LXD container for it. Would you recommend doing a switch to Nextcloud AIO instead?
Sorry, no idea.
I’ve equipped the Deskmeet X300 with a WiFi card and antennas. AFAIU trying to use WLAN instead of LAN will create some trouble. Has anyone running Proxmox on a machine with WLAN insteal of LAN access successfully?
I would always try to connect it to LAN.
I’m aware that Proxmox comes with a firewall, but I don’t feel very confortable using a software firewall running on the same machine that hosts the virtual machines. Is this just me being paranoid or would you recommend putting a hardware firewall between the internet access and the Proxmox server?
No idea. I wouldn’t mind a firewall container. If something breaks through you are fucked one way or the other. The firewall in your router isn’t much different than any other.
You should always go for Wireguard or another VPN to access your network from the outside.What else should I think of, but haven’t talked about/asked yet?
Helper scripts for beginners: https://community-scripts.github.io/ProxmoxVE/
Just give them a look.And it seems you are ignoring Proxmox’ LXC. They are one of main reasons to pick that software.
Edit: As an additional note: I ran about 6 or 7 VMs on a mini PC (Intel N100) with 16 GB RAM. RAM was almost used up and the cpu was at ~15 %.
I then switched mostly to LXC and only one VM. The cpu was now at ~1% and RAM usage went down to 3 GB while still providing the same services as before.
The power of containers, baby! :D
Krik@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Technology@lemmy.world•New Terms for Firefox from MozillaEnglish1·5 months agoThat only gives you a biased and incomplete insight.
Krik@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Technology@lemmy.world•New Terms for Firefox from MozillaEnglish76·5 months agoWHY DO YOU NEED MY DATA TO MAKE FIREFOX WORK???
They don’t care about your actual data, they care about how Firefox is used. That’s an incredible important piece of information every developer needs to know.
How else do you get to know, what’s working right and what doesn’t? How do you plan development for the next years if you don’t know what to develop?This is about throwing millions of $ at the right thing. If you miss you are fucked.
36% of the eligible population didn’t vote and that can only mean they were fine with both Trump and Harris. That makes 71% of the population - the majority of the people.