Bingo. People who are mourning want you, not your words.
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Guy who lost their mum here. So many people told me how I should and shouldn’t feel. It annoyed the crap out of me. Let them know that how they feel is absolutely a valid and understandable way to feel. Do not try to correct them or change how they are - just tell them they are loved and you are there for them.
And whatever you do do not make them feel like their sadness is an inconvenience to you. I got that thrown at me quite a bit and it made me feel so much worse and stalled any attempt at mourning.
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Technology@lemmy.world•Age checks could turn internet into an ID checkpoint and would kill anonymity, Proton CEO saysEnglish
2·4 days agoCube 2 is an obscure gem for me. I really like ‘where are we and how did we get here?’ horror movies. Not sure if you saw Cube 3 but it was… not aa good, lmao.
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Technology@lemmy.world•Age checks could turn internet into an ID checkpoint and would kill anonymity, Proton CEO saysEnglish
3·4 days agoThis was fun to zoom in on and check the titles. Also, good to see an All Elite fan in the wild.
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Technology@lemmy.world•Age checks could turn internet into an ID checkpoint and would kill anonymity, Proton CEO saysEnglish
4·4 days agoDid not know that and will now be ripping as many as I can.
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Technology@lemmy.world•Age checks could turn internet into an ID checkpoint and would kill anonymity, Proton CEO saysEnglish
3·4 days agoI put my 500+ collection of DVDs into several of those old CD storage sleeves cases you used to see back in the 90s. They are safe and sound, ready for when things go too far.
Yeah, thats my take too. Couple of talented kids trying to make a splash but their management team were horrific.
Oh, I think they are awesome - but the abusive faux-lesbian branding makes me feel a bit guilty enjoying it. Personal feelings only, tbh.
Tatu, All The Things She Said. Everything awful about Tatu but I can’t help but enjoy that song.
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Technology@lemmy.world•YouTube's ad problem just got worse: Users now seeing 90-second unskippable ads!English
5·24 days agoLets all just collectively refuse to engage with or buy a product from any company that runs a 90 second unskippable add on youtube.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Who do you think was history's greatest villain?
1·26 days agoHoly shit dude. Trump is a nightmare, but please go touch grass.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Who do you think was history's greatest villain?
1·27 days agoAre you saying you genuinely 100% believe that Trump is more evil than Hitler, Stalin, Pot and Khan?
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Technology@lemmy.world•Australia’s teen social media ban is a flop. But there’s no joy in ‘I told you so’English
1271·30 days ago‘…internally the government was aware of a lack of evidence to support the ban before they passed the legislation anyway’
Terrific job, gov.
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Technology@lemmy.world•Ubuntu Linux raises minimum system memory requirements by 50% — requirements bumped to 6GB of RAM, previously raised from 1GB to 4GB in 2018English
1·30 days agoMy first Linux distro, on account of 2GB of RAM.
Don’t stress about it. I think reddit gives people an unhealthy mindset about how internet forums are.
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News@lemmy.world•New Covid variant has been identified and is already spreading in 25 states
7·1 month agoFair question, but I have seen a chest CT of a bad covid case and the lungs looked like a snowstorm.
Watch /r/politics posts go from 22k upvotes to 3k upvotes overnight.
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Technology@lemmy.world•Asus Co-CEO: MacBook Neo Is a 'Shock' to the PC IndustryEnglish
3·2 months agoI’m running Arch on a Macbook Air with 2GB of RAM. Its limited, but it does what I want it to.
Insanely, its a 2008 Macbook Air. 2GB of RAM. It has no right to still be functioning.


Are you using a vpn? I find that I have to turn mine off to post or comment.